We are keeping in our prayers the following children who are preparing to receive the Sacrament of Holy Communion at our parish church this year. They have been taking part in classes ahead of their Reconciliation and are now focusing on preparing to receive the body and blood of Jesus through Holy Communion. 

First Holy Communion: A Guide for Parents

As parents, you play a crucial role in preparing your child for the sacrament of First Holy Communion. This is a significant moment when your child will receive the body and blood of Jesus Christ for the first time. In this guide, we will outline how we prepare children for this sacrament at school, using the Diocesan scheme. We’ll also provide practical tips on what to expect on the day and what children should wear.

What is First Holy Communion?

First Holy Communion, also known as the Eucharist, which means "thanksgiving," is when we receive the bread and wine that have been transformed into the body and blood of Jesus Christ by the power of the Holy Spirit. This process is called transubstantiation. As Catholics, we believe that Jesus is truly present in the Eucharist and invites us to partake in his life and love.

The Eucharist is one of the seven sacraments of the Catholic Church, and it is the source and summit of our Christian life. It nourishes our faith, strengthens our bond with God and one another, and empowers us to live as disciples of Jesus. The Eucharist is also a sacrifice, a memorial, and a meal. It is a sacrifice because it re-presents the one sacrifice of Christ on the cross. It is a memorial because it recalls the Last Supper when Jesus instituted the sacrament. It is a meal because it feeds us spiritually and unites us as the family of God.

How do we prepare children for First Holy Communion in school?

First Holy Communion typically takes place when your child is in Year 3. At school, we follow the Diocesan scheme. The curriculum ensures that children are thoroughly prepared to receive the sacraments and helps them understand the significance and importance of First Holy Communion.

We also involve parents and the parish in the preparation process. Teachers and Parish Catechists are here to support both you and your child as you grow in faith. There are opportunities for parents to attend meetings, workshops, and celebrations with their children. Parishioners also play a role by supporting and praying for the children as they prepare for this sacrament.

What do children do on the day of First Holy Communion?

The day of First Holy Communion is a joyful and unforgettable occasion for both children and their families. The children typically receive the sacrament during a special Mass at their parish church. While the Mass follows the usual liturgical structure, it includes special elements to highlight the importance of the sacrament.

Children actively participate in the Mass by reading the Liturgy of the Word, leading the Prayers of the Faithful, presenting the gifts, and choosing the hymns. Before receiving their First Holy Communion, the children receive a special blessing from the priest. They then approach the altar with reverence, say "Amen" as they receive the Host, and return to their seats for a moment of quiet prayer and thanksgiving.

After the Mass, photographs may be taken with the priest, catechists, family, and friends. Children may also receive gifts or cards from loved ones in celebration. There will likely be a small reception, with food and cake prepared by families from the school and parish. Official photos will also be taken after the event, along with a celebration that includes the entire community.

What should children wear for First Holy Communion?

There is no strict rule regarding what children should wear for First Holy Communion, but some general guidelines can help you select an appropriate outfit for your child.

Traditionally, girls wear white dresses and veils to symbolize purity and innocence, while boys typically wear smart trousers, a white shirt, a red tie, and a sash. The outfit should be modest and simple. The focus of this sacrament is Jesus Christ, and the attire should reflect that reverence. Above all, ensure your child feels comfortable and confident in their chosen outfit.

We look forward to celebrating this special occasion with you and your child.